Ideal Relationships

Here’s the recording of the introductory teleconference:
‘Using The Passion Test to Discover Your Perfect Mate’ 

To listen, just click on the link above.
Below is information on the full course, “Using the Passion Test to Create Your Ideal Relationship.”

“What Would a Loving, Fulfilling Romantic Relationship
Mean for Your Life

“Let us show you how to use the same process that brought me the most incredible relationship of my life to draw to you the loving, nurturing relationship you deserve.”

Sunday, 10:40 PM
From the Desk of Chris Attwood

Dear Friend –

As you may know, Janet Bray Attwood and I co-authored the New York Times bestseller The Passion Test – The Effortless Path to Discovering Your Destiny.

You may also know Janet and I were once married and are no longer. Many people ask us how we can continue to be best friends and business partners after going through all the heartache and conflict that a relationship which ends in divorce almost always entails.

I’ll share that with you a minute, but first let me tell you how I am fortunate enough to have a baby with my perfect mate, a woman who lived on the other side of the world when I met her, and who loves me as deeply as I love her. And how remarkably, she and Janet have become such dear friends that she asked Janet to be the godmother of our child.

How Miracles Really Do Happen

If you’ve read The Passion Test, then you know one of the things Janet and I say often is:

“When you are clear, what you want will show up in your life, and only to the extent you are clear.”

By 2003, I had been single for seven years. During that time I had tried dating, but it wasn’t very fulfilling. I ended up focusing primarily on my work and the idea of having that loving relationship I dreamed of was put on the back burner and didn’t get much attention.

A time came when work eased up and I began to think about what I really wanted in a relationship. By this time, Janet and I had been teaching the simple, but powerful Passion Test process for gaining clarity for several years. We had also learned a valuable and effective strategic attraction process from two of our colleagues.

I put these tools to work and then put the results aside. I didn’t even look at them for about six months. Then one day I thought it would be fun to check out some dating sites to see what kind of women I might meet. Very soon I discovered there were some “spiritual” dating sites which seemed to have the kind of women I was more interested in meeting and for a couple of weeks I was hooked.

One of those sites,, provided a search capability that helped me find women that met my criteria very specifically. As I went through the results, I came across the profile of a woman who said she was from Germany. From her profile it sounded like we had very similar backgrounds and interests so I wrote to her.

A week went by, and I heard nothing. Finally, I wrote again. This time I got a reply.

“I’m so sorry I didn’t reply earlier,” the note read, “I haven’t been checking my emails for the past week. It was sweet of you to write, but I am living in France and I don’t see myself getting involved in a relationship for at least two years.”

Oh dear.

But ther e was a line of hope in the letter, “However, it would be fun to stay in touch,” she wrote.

With that, emails flew back and forth and then one day, my cell phone rang. It was her, calling from France. I called her back (so she didn’t have to pay the long distance charges) and we talked for two hours.

When we met it was all over for me. To me she was the most beautiful woman I had ever known. While it took a little longer for her (after all she didn’t have the benefit of the clarity processes I was using), today this angelic woman is my wife and the mother of our beautiful daughter.

I have never felt more loved, never had a more fulfilling relationship, never felt so completely blessed.

And that is what Janet and I want for you.

What It Takes to Create Your Ideal Relationship

Clarity is key, but it takes more than just clarity to be able to navigate the sometimes tricky waters of a romantic relationship.

Between us, Janet and I have navigated those tricky waters many times, both successfully and unsuccessfully. Janet has realized that finding her ideal mate, as much as she’d love to have a warm, loving relationship in her life, it’s not her priority right now. So, guess what, that’s what keeps showing up in her life.

And Janet will tell you the funny ways it keeps appearing in her life and how all you fence sitters can get clear on what you REALLY want in your life.

We have conducted a special, exclusive training to show you how to avoid our mistakes and take advantage of the powerful tools we’ve learned to create . . .

. . . the relationship you have always dreamed about

Over nine weeks we conducted an intensive audio series to show you how to draw that ideal relationship into your life. We shared what hasn’t worked, as well as what has worked with extraordinary success.

We’ve conducted an international survey to find out the most pressing questions people throughout the world have about finding and living with their perfect mate. We answer those questions during this special audio series.

During this course, you’ll learn:

  • Where to Start – The Power of Clarity – How to know a potential partner or if the one you’re with is the one for you. Do you need to have the same passions? What to do when you’ve tried everything and nothing has worked.  How to be sure you’re compatible. Knowing how specific you need to be. Does he/she have to be perfect? The key question when you are just getting to know each other. Do you have to date?
  • Getting Out of Your Own Way – What to do so you don’t drive that perfect partner away. Overcoming the fear of rejection. Overcoming the fear of anything. Knowing that you deserve the relationship you dream of. Getting past unrequited love. Clearing the baggage from the past. What to do if you’re consistently attracting the wrong kind of partner. Knowing when you are ready.
  • Enjoying the Process – Where to look for your perfect mate. Chemistry AND friendship, you can have both. Knowing whether differences are opportunities to grow or fundamental incompatibilities. Creating frictionless communication. Why you are never “over the hill.” When to hold ’em and when to fold ’em – knowing when to let go. Does distance matter? How long to wait for them to be ready to commit.
  • Creating Your Ideal Relationship for the Long Term – How to keep the excitement alive. When years don’t matter. How to know its forever. The secret to changing the things you can’t stand in them. The secret to commitment – making one and receiving one. Where finances fit in. The secret of being irresitible. How to create intimacy – into me you see.
  • True Love: What It Really Means – Why finding your perfect partner is the key to every relationship in your life. Does everyone have a perfect partner? What about the ones you left behind? What about the one you’re with now? Becoming the happiest and most powerful you, you can be. What to do when you can’t stand it any more. How to love without conditions and never sacrifice yourself. Understanding how Janet and Chris have the remarkable relationship they enjoy, and you can too, with anyone in your life.

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What People Say About Us

We have spent our entire lives gaining the clarity and experience to be able to share the principles and practice you’ll learn in this course.

“What Chris and Janet taught me was my missing link.”

– Larry Randolph

“You guys are awesome!!! When I think of you, I think Integrity, Love, Passion, Persistence, and Steadiness. I count you both as two of my friends for life.”

Robert G. Allen, five time #1 NY Times bestselling author of Nothing Down and Creating Wealth


“Janet and Chris have quietly effective spirits that evoke results.”

Mark Victor Hansen, co-creator of the mega book empire Chicken Soup for the Soul®


“It is a rare treat for me to be learning from someone so successful in the material world and yet so deeply anchored in the heart. You are truly inspiring role models! Thank you so much! ”
Lekha Shah


“What made your calls particularly useful, was the fact that I could follow the sequential development of ideas, to see and understand the structure and connectedness of the steps. This, to me, is what makes your calls so very different — coherently and compellingly presented steps. Very expertly layered content and stories. Your ability to do this provides a quality beyond mere information.”
 – Gary Greenfield

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   Here’s what you’ll receive:

  • 7 Recorded Training Sessions. You’ll have access to a series of audio recordings that will transform the way you think about relationship. . .
  • Transcripts of Each Session. It’s one thing to hear it. It’s another to be able to read through the material. You’ll be able to download the full transcripts so you can study the lessons in more detail.
  • One Year Membership in This is where Chris found his perfect mate. As part of your course fee, you’ll receive a complimentary, one year, full membership that will not only allow you to browse the site, but you can also use all the features on the site to communicate with anyone that you find interesting. If you are already in a relationship, then you can gift this membership to someone you care about. (Value: $99.95)

     Special Limited Time Offer . . .

     Total Value:  $399.95

     Your Course Fee:  $247.00

What is it worth to you to find your perfect mate and create the kind of relationship you have always dreamed about?

“For me, it was as if my perfect partner was offered up to me on a golden platter. I didn’t have all the great tools you’ll learn in this course, but I thank God that Chris did. He is my dream come true and my only wish is that you will find someone who is as perfect for you as he is for me.”

– Doris (“Doe”) Kahle Attwood

(Janet took this great picture of Chris and me – Doe)

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Love doesn’t have to be a struggle. It doesn’t have to rely on blind luck. You can have a fulfilling rewarding relationship, even if it has eluded you for many years. Janet and I look forward to being with you during this course, and helping you discover the love in your life.

With warmest wishes,


Chris Attwood
Co-author of the NY Times Bestseller,
The Passion Test – The Effortless Path to Discovering Your Destiny

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